7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
Habit 4
4. Think Win-Win
Teens
can learn to foster the belief that is possible to create an atmosphere of Win-
Win in every relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given discussion
or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually beneficial solution. Your
teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others instead of being
threatened by them. Win- Win is a belief
that everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on
you, but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people and you
want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed
as well. Win- Win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of success
to go around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both us. It’s not a matter of who
gets the biggest piece of pie. There’s more than enough food for everyone. It’s
an all-you-can-eat buffet.
Win- win always creates more. Perhaps
the most surprising benefit of thinking Win- Win is the good feelings it brings
on. The true test of whether or not you are thinking Win- Win or one of the
alternatives is how you feel. Win- Lose and Lose- Win thinking will cloud your
judgment and fill you with negative feelings.
Win- Win will fill your heart with
happy and serene thoughts. It will give you confidence. Even fill you with
light. Think Win- Win or no deal.
CHOOSE THE
RIGHT!!!
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